I think i’ve left quite a few cryptic posts here recently. The reason is that i’ve been thinking of breaking up with my bf for some time now… since May… since the post about the cheng teng dessert… and i finally spoke to him about it. At first i wasn’t sure if i was making the right decision but the more things unravel, the more certain i made the right choice.
It really irks me when people try to use emotional blackmail on me. Yes, it may work for a very short while, while my heart’s still a little soft and i may give in a little… but the minute it becomes clear that it’s emotional blackmail, i get very put off. Never ever play the sympathy card… plus sympathy is not love.
I have also met someone new recently. His profile pretty much fits my ideal type and he’s not a bad person. Really not (Senior from 07/95, i get what u mean now). He’s not the type who would intentional hurt a person. However, after a very honest & open chat with him, i realised that his character / personality is exactly like my Qingfu’s!! So i concluded that we’re the type who would make fantastic friends, but that’s all there is to it.