Dance like no one's watching

     Am feeling really angry for my friend.  She has decided to divorce her husband and what a jerk he has turned out to be!

     This guy:

• – Will not lift a finger to do housework.  Even when my friend was 6 months pregnant, she had to wash the clothes, wash the toilet, wash her car, etc.  The jerk would only wash his precious motorbike.
• – Is totally inconsiderate.  He would switch the fan on at full speed and blowing directly at the bed.  When my then pregnant friend told him she was feeling really cold, he told her to sleep in the study room.
• – Can let his baby sleep on a mattress soaked with the baby’s pee because he was too busy playing computer games in the next room.  Never mind the fact that the baby was crying non-stop… till my friend came back from work.

     My friend eventually walked out of the family home about 2 months after her baby was born.  She tried to go for marital counselling with the jerk… but he scolded the counsellor who eventually told my friend either she wait another 10 years for him to mature, or file for a divorce.

     So my friend decided to formally separate from the husband.  The jerk then went to the US for work (he’s a technician with the airforce).  About 6 months after he was there, a ex-girlfriend visited him and he took her to tour the US.  My friend found photos of them taken together – with his arm around the girl’s waist, hugging her from the back and so on.  (He admitted to sharing room with her and sleeping on the same bed even though he insists that "nothing happened").

     Amongst the photos my friend found, there was also a more recent photo of the slut lifting up her top to expose her pregnant tummy (yeah, the slut was pregnant with her "boyfriend’s" kid… though this angmoh boyfriend is now based in HK and does not acknowledge that the kid is his… yet she’s supposedly sticking with him while gallivanting with the jerk).

     I was soooo tempted to post photos of the jerk and the slut here but it wouldn’t be fair to expose their identities since that would affect my friend, who will soon be fighting with the jerk for the custody of her son.  Initially, I told my friend that even if she’s divorced from the jerk, she shouldn’t stop the jerk from seeing her son ‘cos that would probably impact her son negatively.  But thinking about it now, I wonder what sort of "good" example the jerk would set for the son… moreover, if he could leave the son crying and soaking in his urine when he was a helpless baby, what care or concern could he ever provide for the son?  You’ve seen Beauty and the Beast… now welcome to Slut and the Jerk.