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Life is Made Up of Cherished Memories

Feeling kind of melancholic lately.  My grandma’s old house has been sold.  The house that my relatives and i have gathered for every Chinese New Year, Christmas, etc, the entire 27 years of my life has been sold.  And its fate is doomed… the new owners are going to pull it down and rebuild their dream […]

Cold Feet

Just suffered 2 severe cramps on my right foot… started with the 2nd toe on my right foot… the toe just sunk downwards and refused to move.  I grabbed the offending toe immediately to prevent it from “sinking lower into depression” but the pain just wouldn’t go away!  I was yelping like mad dog at my […]

Pearls of Wisdom

A long time ago, i used to like these short stories that had sort of like a Christian moral behind them.  I had quite a few of them saved in my Outlook Express folders… but lost everything when my hdd crashed.  Yes, yes, i know… for a closet techie like me, i should’ve had everything […]

It’s not Love the 2nd Time Round

Was thinking about my last post during my shower when it dawned upon me that it’s not love the 2nd time round.  ‘Cos if 2 people could not find it within themselves to love the other party deep enough to work things out the first time, assuming their characters did not change when they meet […]

It’s not Love the 2nd Time Round

Was thinking about my last post during my shower when it dawned upon me that it’s not love the 2nd time round.  ‘Cos if 2 people could not find it within themselves to love the other party deep enough to work things out the first time, assuming their characters did not change when they meet […]

Read an article in Sunday Times’ “Reflect” column (29 Oct 2006) written by Cheong Suk-Wai today.  In it, she talked about a “erstwhile” love that has just re-entered her life 5 years after he walked out of it.  She wondered whether she ought to “reclaim the lost years”… and dwelled upon the cynical side of looking […]

Iwok told me today that his mom is matchmaking him with some girl next week.  Strangely, i’m not really affected by it.  I wondered if i should feel even a tinge of jealousy?  Unfortunately (or fortunately), i don’t.  I’m like… ok… good for u… go meet her. I think i must have repeated my views […]

Congrats Qingfu!

My Qingfu is getting married!  So happy for him.  I know he doesn’t read my blog but it’s ok.  I’m still very happy for him.  Haha.  I asked him today what was it about the gal that made him want to settle down (he, er, was quite a cassanova during our school days) and his […]

Leaving No Stones Unturned

I think i’ve left quite a few cryptic posts here recently.  The reason is that i’ve been thinking of breaking up with my bf for some time now… since May… since the post about the cheng teng dessert… and i finally spoke to him about it.  At first i wasn’t sure if i was making […]

I, Moron

Sigh.  I exasperate myself all the time.  I always think i’m like so damn freaking cool and hard-hearted when i’m really the most soft-hearted sucker on earth.  I do this to myself ALL THE TIME, like what on earth is wrong with me?  It’s like my rational brain takes over all bodily functions, then i make […]




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